My girlfriend and i are together for 3 and half years now. Currently, i am serving military in taiwan and will not able to the U.S for 1 year. I am very in love with her. I care for her. I believe she is the only one for my future. Recently, she told me that she is in pain, lonely, and sad because the distance is too far and not able to talk to each other everyday.
Shall i let her go and tell her to find a boyfriend next to her so that she wont be lonely?
If i let her go, it will be a great pain for myself. Is it worth to sacrifice for her even though i really love her and i believe she is the one for me?
Thank you for your adviseI need some long distance relationship advise from your view?
There are 3.5 million fish in the sea, i'm sure you can find another one.I need some long distance relationship advise from your view?
Who are you to leave her? If she has to go, she will go. But if she loves you and wants to wait for you, she will suffer pain but continue waiting. And if she goes, why you will be in pain for a person who doesn't love you and has left.
long distaance relationships are hard some say they dont work for me they do but come with a lot of secrets and drama so if you can hold on to her expect some drama but if she loves you as much as you do she will wait i guess give a try if it does not work then let it go. everything has value to it and maybe your love is being tested right here with the distance
If she is really the ONE for you , she will wait or you will find her again when you are back , let her go and if she goes , you where not meant to be anyway , better you find out now then later
If you really love each other, think about marriage. It can be rewarding for you both. Plus, you're in the military, so as your dependent, she will be able to come with you. Meanwhile, send her a ticket to come see you, after all, long distance relationships are hare to keep going.
i understand ur pain but she cant suffer like that either....if thats the decision she wants to me then let her....it would be best for her but u cant hold her down because u scared ur feelings will get hurt....if she did love u she would wait until u get back but to tell you the truth, she's not going to wait for a whole year...if she's commited she will and just let her know how u feel about the whole matter and everything will work out ok....things happen for a reason and u just have learn from them and move on....
i love her now
but to far i am
i love her now
but we be together again
my friend wrote this poem, she loves love poems.
anyway,
what makes you think that she wants to break up. if shes hurting so much just with you gone, think about if she doesn't even have you anymore.
that would just kill me.
maybe she is just telling you how she feels. i mean if she was talking to you on the phone and says, ';oh hey hunny I'm haven a great time with you thousands of miles away for a year'; it would be pretty weird.
if she truly loves you, shell stay with you without hesitation.
but if she goes, just to think if you marred her all the paper work you would have to wright out. oh and all the money you spend, terrible. i know my mothers been divorced 3 times.
well i hope every ting turns out all right.
see ya,
Sahara
cliche i know but..... if you love something set it free if it comes back it is yours if it doesnt it was never meant to be
try n increase d communication...........it's d best method to heal a relationship.......
If she really is the one she will not let you go OR she will let you go and quickly realize that she does love you. If you let her go and she doesn't come back she doesn't truely love you.
It is up to you!
no don't let her go
your sacrificing you life in Taiwan you shouldn't have to give up your love too. if she loves you as much as you love her, she'll wait for you. long distance relationships are very hard but if you are really in love, it will work.
Come on GI, I am sure that there is going to be a time that you will be able to do some travel. You can get a military flight free to Japan or Hawaii. Work out a way to meet some where. There is an Army hotel in Hawaii that has great rates and an excellent private beach. This will give her some hope and something to help with her time. She will need passports etc. Viet Nam is so pro American now and are begging for American tourists. Use you military mind and figure out a way to get 'er done. You will both have a blast. She seems worth the effort.
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